The bible tells us to LOVE ~ from a pure heart, a good conscience, and sincere faith. The problem is most of us don’t have a pure heart~ we don’t allow ourselves to have it even though we were all born with it. We want from people, expect from people and we don’t give love from purity we give it with expectations. We expect people, especially family to do what we want them to do for our own sake; and sometimes forget to take the others person perspective into consideration or how things will affect that individual and concentrate on how it will affect us; and guess what it may affect us; but people have to do what is right for them and not anyone else. EVERYONE has their own journey, their own path, and sometimes it shifts from the way they have always done things because sometimes they are on a path that is completely different.
What little faith we hold if we can’t believe in a person’s decision and back it up; and what little faith we have in God if we keep fighting the path he takes us down. A very difficult thing for a lot of people is putting down the guilt that plays on our heart and soul, and realizing one has to make a decision that one knows will affect others they love, because deep inside its the best decision for their own well being. One of the best gifts on this earth is the feeling of peace and content; everyone deserves it!